I’m reading this book The Shack, by William P. Young. The following section of quotes has spoken to me deeply recently as I think about the handful of people in my life that choose to live without love: Either because they don’t know how to receive it, or they are still struggling to understand it more fully. It makes me sad and makes me want to love each one more unconditionally. I want everyone to be able to fly.
My friend, Alex, just took his own life yesterday. His memory will not quickly fade from my heart. His life will challenge me to love more unconditionally and sit with others unconditionally for the rest of my life. I am so sorry he’s gone. I am sorry that he felt that this was his only choice. I miss him.
Here are some quotes from the book… A conversation between the main character and God…
Mack: “I feel totally lost”…
God: “Then let’s see if we can find you in this mess.”… “Most birds were created to fly. Being grounded for them is a limitation within their ability to fly, not the other way around… You, on the other hand, were created to be loved. So for you to live as if you were unloved is a limitation, not the other way around.”
God: “Living unloved is like clipping a bird’s wings and removing its ability to fly. Not something I want for you.”
God: “Mack, pain has a way of clipping our wings and keeping us from being able to fly… And if left unresolved for very long, you can almost forget that you were ever created to fly in the first place.”
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Me: I pray that my life can be the kind of sacrifice needed for others to know, to see and to receive the fact that they were created to be loved… and to fly… God, let it be.
Adelle Williams 7:01 pm on May 23, 2008 Permalink |
I really enjoyed reading your blog, Cyndee! Beautiful and informational comments.
Especially, re: the book you are reading by William Young “the Shack”. I will get it…It sounded so spirit filled and reflective.
The taking of one’s life is such a deep hurt to all his/her loved ones left behind…it is immeasurable…with the exception of the person who did the act…their heart too sensitive, too deep to live. No one in more pain than that dear soul. Most difficult to comprehend; but then at times, very very clear..as we learn more compassion for others, it is easier to understand the depth of one’s fear of yet one more day to try and endure the demons…hurts…sadness.
LIFE is so much more precious in the midst of someone’s taken away… It remains a constant effort to fight for the clarity of the real vs. surreal..only GOD can envelope our minds and hearts and elevate us out of this dark place.
WE MUST REMAIN IN THIS LIFE LIVED FOR OTHERS…IN GOD’S GOODNESS AND “HIS” EMBRACING ARMS..
Much love
Adelle xo